What are the qualities that genuinely define leadership? Think of three people you consider to be leaders. Can you name the qualities they exhibit that make them leaders to you?
Any typical list of top 10 criteria for leadership invariably includes a combination of these 14 qualities:
- vision
- charisma
- integrity
- responsibility
- clear strategy
- strong decision-making
- risk taking
- dominance
- enthusiasm

- motivating
- self-assurance
- energetic
- extroverted
- self-aware
However, for the majority of us, there are usually a couple criteria also included, which are never officially sited by any list:
- this person is famous
- this person is rich
- my peers agree that he is a leader
- the media refers to her as a leader
- he tells us he is a leader on his website, book jacket, or other marketing materials.
While you and I are most certainly immune to such influences (and that should go without saying, right?) we have to acknowledge these influences are real. In too many instances, not only are they the first criteria being used, they are often the only criteria. Yet it is a truth of human nature that as soon as we label any individual as a leader, we then create expectations of them, based on our own principles and levels of acceptable behavior.
Is it any wonder then, that so few “leaders” fail to live up to our expectations, when they’ve been handed the job without even looking at their resume?
A Challenge:
What if we first examined how we define leadership, before accepting the words of our friends, the media, campaign stickers and book reviews? And what if we then rejected any leader who could not demonstrate those qualities?
What are your three most important qualities in a leader? Who consistently demonstrates those qualities? I honestly would like to know. And to start things off, I’ll give you mine:
- Self-actualized
- Has a vision for the future
- Demonstrated ability to put others before him/herself
- Speaks and acts according to their principles before worrying about popularity.
- Optimism
I am fortunate to know several people who demonstrate these qualities, but I doubt you know them. One you should know, pictured here, is Craig Kielburger.
Finally, I challenge you to think about the qualities you use to define leadership, and then to demonstrate those qualities each day, consistently, for 30 days. The world can use more good leaders.







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Maybe this won’t shock you. But I have never really paid attention to the general public when it comes to the people that I call leaders. I’m not swayed by fame. I’m more likely to find someone that I would want to emulate standing next to me on the street than I am to find them on TV.
And that’s kind of what leaders do, yes? They make us want to be more like them. Because ideally, they have qualities that make them stand out to us. Qualities that we seek to improve in ourselves.
I agree with your list. I would also add a sense of humour on there, but only because I think that people who lack a sense of humour lack the ability to laugh at themselves. And to me, a leader needs to be able to do that.
I don’t think that true leaders identify themselves as leading, really. And if they do, they are never entirely comfortable in the role.
I think a true leader is someone that is more comfortable walking beside you, than in front of you.
But then, maybe that’s just me.
This was a fantastic read, David. And I’m going to accept your challenge, and try to demonstrate those very qualities!
Thanks Lori. Let me know how it goes!
A sense of humour is paramount, yes. I agree.
Me too…I have never really paid attention to mainstream definitions of leadership…
I shared this on twitter earlier some time this week…but essentially sometimes the “2nd or 3rd follower” is actually a leader as well…
here it is again, a 3 minute amazing Ted.com video:
http://www.ted.com/talks/derek_sivers_how_to_start_a_movement.html
Thanks for the link Annie!
In brief my idea of a leader is someone who has a unique perspective on how to make change (of any kind), can deliver the idea/concept in a lucid way (easily decipherable) and open the door for others to participate. Lone wolfs are mostly Cult leaders.
A leader is one piece of the puzzle. A leader begins the puzzle.
It’s up to the rest to pull it all together.
No matter what background a leader comes from they WILL become famous because to become a leader and be a good one it means you’re known, respected by many. Hated as well. Either way, all “leaders” that touch a large demographic and inspire people to follow suit and act, take action, are famous.
Hi Tina,
I think Craig Kielburger would fit your description of a leader.
nice post. thanks.
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